I love this Joanna - it's such sound advice.
I don't think it applies exclusively to anorexia and EDs, I can see it applying to all
kinds of situations. For me it's useful in trying to maintain an amicable relationship with my ex, and for living with my daughter who's hit that teenage hormonal patch where her self-confidence is wavering a bit.
In both situations, continuing to model what is healthy, with no pressure on them to follow suit, I think is the best thing I can do.